My home away from home

I am loving my new home!

Not only am I making lots of new friends, but my home life is absolutely amazing. I get my own private room which includes a huge closet, LOTS of storage space, and a private balcony! It is perfect for taking siestas in the sunshine after la comida de media dia (the equivalency of lunch).

I was also very fortunate with the selection of my family. My host mom (Carmen)is absolutely amazing. I live alone with her (all her children are grown and gone), which is actually really nice. We have spent hours on end talking about everything. I am learning so much from her; ranging from new recitas (recipes) to new vocabulary. It should come as no surprise that nearly all my new words are food related. :)

Yesterday I had the pleasure of meeting her daughter Marie Carmen and granddaughter over la comida de media dia. I can tell that their family is really close, which is comforting. I miss my own family enough, that it feels good to be around someone elses.

I also made some new Mexicano friends already! Luis (my cultural assistant) introduced me to some of his girlfriends here. We went out last night and had a blast! Over beers and pizza I learned that college students are the same EVERYWHERE. The things we talked about were surprisingly... normal. There was lots of teasing and laughter as the girls taught me "essential vocabulary" for surviving in Mexico. It should come as no surprise that the word at the top of the list of "chug" in Spanish. They are planning a party for me next week. I can't wait.

I will admit, it was difficult at times. I could not understand everything they said, which made me feel weird. It was mostly the slang that confused me, but it reminded me of something a friend once told me. She was an international student studying for a year in Oakfield, and after six months of friendship she admitted that when we first met, she couldn't understand a word I said. She admitted that she used to nod her head in agreement, even when she had no idea what I was saying. After last night, I understand COMPLETELY. It is no fun to constantly ask for clarification. It is better to go with the flow, have another beer, and try to have a good time.

So that is the plan! Especially for this upcoming weekend. I am planning a three day excursion with some new friends to Veracruz for Carnival! I may not be Christian, but I sure as heck will enjoy the celebration!

Meanwhile, the adventure continues!